Questions

1.  Yes, I believe they do it because they think thier children will not be self motivated. By forcing them to acheive they believe they will eventually want it for themselves
2.  Some conflicts parents and childrens have is asking for things, going places, breaking rules, and disrespect.
3.  Yes, anyone with enough motivation can drive themselves to achieve the things they want.
4.  No, they can end up bad for each side of whatever argument may be happening.
5.  My parents allow me to do more than a typical chinese kid but im not allowed to do everything. Chinese parents are very demanding and strict  with their children.